Brave Space Model
Welcome Multiple Viewpoints
Speak from your own experience by using “I statements”. Ask questions to understand the sources of disagreements.
Own Intentions and Impacts
Respect each other’s experiences and feelings by taking responsibility for the effects of your words.
Recognise Privileges
Use this space to recognise and investigate your privileges (for example, class, gender, sexual orientation, and ability). Honour the different experiences we all bring to this space.
Take Risks: Lean into Discomfort
We are all in the process. Challenge yourself to contribute even if it is not perfectly formulated.
Step Back
Share speaking time and try to speak after others who have not spoken.
Notice and Name Group Dynamic in the Moment
We are all responsible for this space. Be aware of how others are responding or not responding. Ask for a “time out” or dialogue if needed.
Actively Listen
Use your energy to listen to what is said before thinking about how to respond. Notice when defensiveness and denial arise.
Challenge with Care
Find ways to respectfully challenge others and be open to challenges of your own views. Think about how to question ideas without personal attacks.
Confidentiality
Share the message, not the messenger.
Break it down
Use simple language and background information when necessary. Ask for clarification if needed.
Adapted from: AWARE-LA